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A submissive has a safe-word to end play, while a slave has consented to no-consent. A slave must be a submissive, but a submissive is not necessarily a slave.

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Submissives are just playing; slaves live the lifestyle. A submissive has more self-respect than a slave.

Slaves are crazy, because who in their right mind would want to be a slave? Yada yada yada.

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This is about the point where the fistfights and hair-pulling begin, and someone eventually is provoked to lob the ultimate holy hand-grenade of judgment: Some of them are completely true for the way a particular person lives and functions and perceives themselves as either a slave xnd a submissive. Some of them are pure bullshit.

But this gets me no closer to a final answer. Maybe we might get further asking what a submissive and a slave have in common. Fair enough?

I think the ultimate point of this essay is that I am most assuredly not trying to limit or define or anyone in diffegence negative way. A slave submits more of themselves all of themselves?

I visualize all of us on this great big sliding scale: Dominants slabe one end, submissives on the. On the other end would be those with submissive personalities, needs and desires. The more a submissive needs to submit as opposed to merely desiring itthe further out on the slide they go. The more control they need to surrender, the closer they come to slavery.

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I chose the phrasing of that last sentence quite deliberately: Because I said that slavery does not and cannot exist in this country. They sent me links to various articles about illegal immigrants who are kept in erotic turkish massage for illegal wages, in illegal conditions under the threats of blackmail, violence and other criminal acts of fraud and deceit.

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But tonight is about how I see the world. Where I perceive the differences.

My viewpoint. Reality is that most of us fall somewhere in the continuum, not at the precise points I will be talking.

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I am talking about concepts. Ideals.

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Not reality. I have seen people who called themselves a slave who behaved more like what I think of as a submissive. And I have known many who saw themselves as a submissive, but behaved more like a slave. It only talks about two s-types. The world as I see sumbissive, there is a difference between the concept of a submissive and the concept of a slave. As I see the submissive, they are the bulk of the participants of BDSM, at least in my community and the communities I male escorts buffalo visited.

Submissives seem to be difference between a submissive and a slave submissige on their wants, their desires, and their limits. They are concerned about what they can get out of the Lifestyle. Sometimes the next orgasm.

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While they may provide service to their partner, they do it for the rewards they. Often they require more micro-management to fulfill a request or directive, hesitating if step by step instructions are not left.

They can show little initiative, taking pleasure rather in the doing of each command. This is how they see their role in the Lifestyle. Sometimes it is because they are afraid of letting go. Perhaps they have been damaged by previous relationships vanilla or not.

Perhaps they are less serious looking for fun, or they are swingers hartford ct. Swinging. serious, but concerned about being misused or abused. There are many good reasons for being a submissive, and not every s-type is supposed to be a slave. The way I see the role of a slave, she is more differencd on what his partner needs.

What he can do for his Mistress.

A slave often has no stated limits. It betqeen just that they have negotiated carefully with their partner and are comfortable with the limits they set well at least the smart ones.

They often show more initiative. A difference between a submissive and a slave general command, such as fix dinner, will usually meet with better results from a slave.

When presented with such tasks, they are capable of running with the facts at hand.


Taking what they know about their D-type and using that to difference between a submissive and a slave their choices.

Slaves also tend to be very head-strong, a slave I know told me that the best slaves have dominant personalities.

I have to agree with. It takes fuck buddies Durham lot of inner strength to let go qnd submit to the will of. I have a confession to make: RT missmargotnyc: Betwewn much is that doggie in the window?

Who in their right mind would want to be a slave? as if sadism and masochism perversions has anything to do with right mind, the only part in BDSM - Sexuality. Since there are no hard and fast definitions of submissive and slave, do illustrate the mental differences between submissive and slave in a. The world as I see it, there is a difference between the concept of a submissive and the concept of a slave. As I see the submissive, they are the.